Friday, March 16, 2012

Love is on the internet.

"Love is on the air" is a common sentence that we usually hear or read somewhere. But love is on the internet, i think the readers know exactly what is the story behind that. Yep, that is a common story which i and some people have experienced it. In the advanced technology like nowadays, internet is like a basic needs when people can get in touch with others every minute in every single day and see the world in a simple way. The information provided via internet starting from unknown story until the most popular story is easy to know only by clicking our finger. So, i can say that the internet is one of an amazing discovery in today's era. Although sometimes some people use the internet for not a good purpose, but however we see the useful of the internet from the positive point and we need to thank to the inventor of the internet, because they have given us the easy way to communicate and  see the world.

And from the internet, i finally met someone which is my husband now. Maybe some people are questioning "how did i meet my husband?" and maybe some of them knew already and some of them are just guessing. The easy guess is from dating site, although some people doesn't believe that there are still good serious people on the dating site who are looking for a serious relationship. But the fact is i met my husband on the dating site and the process took approximately one year until we got married. It was quite fast actually but i think that is what we called "Destiny". Yep, we will never know where we meet our soulmate, because love could come from anywhere, in unpredictable time, place and condition. Sometimes we look too far where we can find our soulmate and by destiny sometimes our soulmate is just right in front of us, they could be our bestfriend, our friend from school, from work and even our neighbour.

We could find good people and of course bad people with bad intention on the dating site. We just need to be careful with whom you talk to, my experiences were also not always good with the dating site but the point is never give up because there will be one good person in a million people but don't forget that our destiny will decide. I knew some guys from dating site which i met personally or just chatted via messenger, some of them were good, some were not good. Some of them could be friends until now although we never met each other face to face. Even few of them are being my girlfriends' husband now, i knew them at the first time on the dating site and then i introduced them to my girlfriends and they kept in touch, they met face to face, they found the same chemistry each other, they had serious relationship until finally they decided to get married. For that case, few friends called me as a matchmaker but however I am very happy for them, and always wishing that their marriage is last forever.

I met people in Jakarta and here in Germany and heard their story how they met their husband, many of them have the same answer as me..."from dating site".... I was just smiling when i heard the answer from them. It makes me think that world is so small with the internet, and love never chooses where they want to be found.

So, for those who just started joining the dating site and wishing to find their soulmate there. I wish you "Good luck and always be careful" and hopefully you can find your soulmate on the dating site. And for those who joined the dating site for long time and still not yet find their soulmate, please be patient....love will find you, and don't forget to open your eyes around you, maybe your soulmate is not coming from the dating site, they could come from unpredictable way. Just believe and keep in mind that everyone is destined in pairs, when we need long time to find our soulmate, it is only because God is preparing the best soulmate for us.

2 comments:

Adelwise5758 said...

Hai mba, boleh donk kenal. Aku pengen byk nanya nih. Soalnya aku jg pny calon suami German

Dayah Djambali said...

Hi juga,

Salam kenal.

Kalo kamu ada pertanyaan seputar menikah dengan WN Jerman, kamu bisa email ke aku di dayah.vogel@yahoo.de

Salam,
Dayah